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The Real Truth About ADHD And Clutter

I'm sick of talking about ADHD and clutter. Seriously, as my friend Rene' Brooks pointed out on Twitter, organizational p*rn is rampant in the ADHD community. It's ok to look at aspirational home content, but if it makes you feel bad about yourself there's not no...

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Good Girls With ADHD

Why are we all working so hard to be good girls with ADHD? Actually scratch that. Why are we trying to be good girls at all? Don't deny it, I have proof. I asked this question on my business Facebook page, AND in a Facebook group. You all confirmed you wanted to be a...

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Kids With ADHD and ODD

  It is not uncommon to encounter kids with ADHD and ODD. Up to 40% of children diagnosed with ADHD also are diagnosed with oppositional defiant disorder. Source If we're being honest, I know a ton of adults with ADHD who lean into oppositional behavior as well....

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Coaching Your ADHD Child on Social Skills

Coaching your ADHD child on social skills is more complicated than just telling them when they’ve done something wrong. Believe me, I know how hard it is not to lose your sh-t when your child behaves inappropriately in a social situation. I’ve spent many hours sitting...

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Building Empathy In Children

In the midst of our  current public health crisis and cultural conflict, building empathy in children has become more important than ever. First things first - sympathy and empathy are not** the same thing. My son, who is both ADHD and high functioning autistism, has...

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Setting Boundaries In Your Parenting

Seting boundaries in your parenting is just as important as learning to set clear, kind boundaries in all of your relationships. Even before I started this blog I was obsessed with parenting. I read as many books as I could get my hands on while I was pregnant. Like...

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ADHD, Money, and Emotions

ADHD, money, and emotions are inextricably linked. I feel a little uncomfortable whenever someone emails me with questions about ADHD and money management. Money management isn't just about creating a budget, it's about how we feel about ourselves. Many of us measure...

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Shifting From Conflict to Calm

Shifting from conflict to calm is quite difficult after approximately fifteen weeks of togetherness. It's summer. I have ADHD, my child has ADHD, and summer camp is currently closed. Temperatures are rising faster than a helium balloon around here. While carrying...

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Give Your Child a Redo

When things are going off the rails, give your child a redo. No wait, give your child (and yourself) a redo. THAT is where the magic is. Yes, your child will occasionally act like caged animal and embarrass you in public, or behind you while in the middle of a zoom...

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Teaching Children with ADHD about Consequences

Teaching children with ADHD about consequences is tricky business. As a parent with ADHD I have trouble recalling my past learning experiences and applying them, so I know damn well my child has is even harder. According to the authors of Parenting with Love and...

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